Ronald Takao Kadoguchi was an ex who subjected me to mental abuse, and racism. There was also some involvement with guns and punching or slamming things. Could be considered domestic violencs. I was called n-words, this was over not wrapping a gift box he used year after year right. The box was barely able to stand up. He called me a no good n-word because of this. I felt I had to walk on egg shells around him. I was called colored girl too. He would pull guns out for no reason and wave them around while we were riding in the car together.