Cheaters come in all forms. Sometimes people seek emotional intimacy outside their relationship, some seek sex, and some go as far as registering their name to an actual website confirming that they are looking to cheat. While we think the Ashley Madison variety are special kinds of stupid, the issue remains that there’s some sort of taboo code of keeping our lips sealed when we find out someone is stepping outside of their committed relationships.
“Not my story, but one of the managers where I worked in college was seriously the nicest guy I've ever met… he would give you the shirt off his back. He had been married before and they divorced amicably and had just recently remarried. Apparently the new wife got along fairly well with the old wife (they all went to the same church) and they began spending time together. He thought it was great because there were kids involved and this made things substantially easier that they weren't fighting and could coparent easily. One day he was a no-call no-show to work.